Feminism is not about who opens the jar.

It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family.

It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works.

But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it.

ladysinestra:

me an my boyfriend

Now I’ll surrender up my heart
And swap it for yours

sukkanen:

♥ poochyena & skitty ♥

idareu2bme:

star trek aos + tumblr text posts (pt. 2/?; pt. 1)

I laughed and laughed and laughed. *sigh* oh, I have fun.

s-kiyoko:

Haikyuu!! - anime vs manga // episode 13 (part i, ii)

(inspired by x)

❝ I always had friends by my side.  And I even surprised myself… by how loudly I learned to laugh. ❞ | inspired by x and x

I keep getting you into trouble.
Ahh, I’m used to it.

music tag game thing idk yeee

tagged by vani

You can tell a lot about a person by the type of music they listen to. Hit shuffle on your iPod, phone, iTunes, media player, etc. and write down the first 20 songs and pass this on to 10 people. One rule: no skipping.

  1. Summertime Sadness - Lana Del Ray
  2. Something That I Want - Tangled soundtrack
  3. Supernatural - Ke$ha
  4. Love Runs Out - One Republic
  5. From Finner - Of Monsters and Men
  6. Stay Stay Stay - Taylor Swift
  7. Stutter - Marianas Trench
  8. Miss Missing You - Fall Out Boy
  9. Icarus - Bastille 
  10. Aggie Fights - Paranorman Sountrack

yeeee and I ain’t tagging cause I’m v v tired and too lazy so hELLA c:

hinatashou-yo:

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I see things that nobody else sees.